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I have a friend not boyfriend

Mittwoch, 20. Juli 2011

What are love and relationships? How are these terms different? Because they are followed by a lot of other elements like it differs from one country to another. Also religion plays a significant role in this issue or may be this relationship is effected by personalities of participants, their background, culture, values, attitudes and so on...

Love and relationship - They are two different terminologies. Each of them carries a lot of meanings. They are mostly used in our socities nowadays. But what the reason of linking each one to another all the time, love is simply considered to be the fresh air that every one can't breath that but he can just feel it. It is an amazing feeling, that no one can live without  it . As a human must feel to be loved by other surounding persons, he can't live isolated from them. It is impossible!!!

So the relationship , it is just the process of breathing the fresh air , it is considered to be apart of communication . it  takes place between two parties , one of them is the sender and the role of another one is the reciver . especially in the human relationships .The role of love here isn't a feeling , it is just one of many types of  arelationships. infact the relationship doesn't  have to be a romantic , you can also have relationships with your family, sbilings, relatives , and for sure friends. this kind in the communication  studies called  that interpersonal communication.

on the other hand we have another type of arelationships , that alot of people have arelationships with the nature . for example one can just set on the beach and  stay seeing the sea .he can imangine ,that he is talking to the sea the keeper of his secrets , he can look to the moon and it can remind him with his memories and so on....  also some people have arelationships with antiques , they all the time tried to buy old things and it may be very expensive,actually they aperciate them!

Absolutely when we are talking about romantic and love relationships "especially". we should remind that this relationship is effected by alot of other elements and factors . because not all countries and socities have the same religion, culture ,traditions, beliefs, attitudes and fore sure not the same personalites of people .as there is a basic principle that people are very different !!

So accroding to this important principle , EGYPT  totally differs  from GERMANY in this issue . Egypt is a muslim country .so religion is the first value there, young people or elderly one all of them are religious . even christians including all thier catigories they are religious also. when youth have a love relationships they always know exactly what they should do and what not? . the second factor that is the way of bringing up childerns , seriously parents are participating to create thier children's minds what is right from thier point of view and what is wrong to do??

the third significant factor is the culture, that's mean the Egyption culture , what about thier beliefs ,atitudes and traditions??so what about thier way of thinking?? background is the fourth and last element that we should remind it    as especially in Egypt ,capitals are different . for example sinai is different from cairo and so on..... , so what is the main idea that comes around your mind now ????  yeah you are right ." love relationships in Egypt are controlled and influnced by alot of various variables ."

actually germans have another charachtristics which aren't the same of egyptions . for example if we are talking about the religious germany have some of people are religious and some of others not. germans have more freedom than Egyptions , they can wear what they want and so on..  in the other side , the second elemnet that the role of parents as they are responsible for the bringing up of thier childern . they also more open minded they accepted alot of things that may be forbidden or not accepted in egypt . For example they allow thier children to live alone after being 16 years old, they belive that is the self dependent .mostely of egyption families don't allow this. so they are various ways  of treating with children which for sure contributes to build thier personalities.

then the german culture like most of Europian cultures that has more opened concepts and thoughts that most of youth people are drinkers ,that of course you can't find it in Egypt. so actually you will find that background differ from egypt as aresult of these previous factors that we mentioned before .

There are 3 types of  love relationships :

friends, engagement , marriage

so in EGYPT the most common relationships are  engagement and marriage on the other side germans the friends relationship is the first choice for them!!

finally everyone  behave concerning to his surrounding enviroment. not the Egyptions are close minded and not german are opened , still Egyptions have thier point of view and germans as well , don't let people change you,keep yourself .affect and not be effected!!